Monday, June 29, 2009

Simple Woman's Daybook


Outside my window…it's cooler than it has been in days. 5:30 and 63 degrees. Birds singing to the pale peach sky.

I am thinking…about Gemma. Dominic was born 3 years ago, and his was a summer birth as well, but this pregnancy is exhausting me like no other. Must be my age. I can't make a bed without wanting to nap afterward!

I am thankful for…my family. At 18 I was cynical about marriage and children. A casualty of divorce, I didn't even think about marriage, let alone children, who would just "mess up my life." Never did I think that I would be married twenty-two years and the grateful mother of four sons and two daughters, and that with all the chaos they bring into my formerly quiet life, I would find my joy in them as I would in nothing else.

I am also thankful for the quick response of St. Joseph. Bret has been commissioned to do another altar, this one for Our Lady of the Caves in Horse Cave, KY!

From the kitchen...Muffins of some sort. And fruit smoothies.

I am creating…nothing much. I put aside the soaker since it is so large it will be a year before Gemma can fit it. I need to hem my 4 yards of gauze to make a Moby Wrap-type baby carrier.

I am readingThe Splendor of Sorrow. Wonderful meditations on the Seven Sorrows of our Blessed Mother. Only $2.00 from Sophia Institute Press, and I highly recommend it!

I am hoping…That Gemma is head down and engaged, and that I am already dilating and effacing. I am ready to have her on the outside!

I am hearing…birds. And a door quietly closing. I'm betting it's Gabe, the early-riser. No, I'm wrong, it is Sebastian!

A few plans for the rest of the week: I have an OB appt today. I need to cut hair on the three younger boys (did Bret and Sebastian this weekend). I have stocked up on what I need to make several meals, so I need to do that. Hem the baby carrier. Try to pace myself so that I have some strength left for labor.

The children are...asleep but for Sebastian and Gabriel. Una is asleep beside my bed. Bret usually frowns at the kids asking to sleep in our room, but I'm grateful that Una still wants to. She's getting so big, and I sometimes wish I had a bed big enough for the whole family!

A Picture Thought: Adrian playing in the sprinkler with his cousin, Thomas. This is why he was so wiped out last week!Visit Peggy at the Simple Woman for more Daybook entries. Have a blessed week!

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Sunday Silence

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Friday, June 26, 2009

Jumping on the "7 Quick Takes" bandwagon...

...because it takes the pain out of posting. I can rely on someone else to cleverly come up with a topic, and on Fridays, this will be it (unless I am struck with a bolt of inspiration). So without further ado:1) Pretty much everything is about getting ready for the baby right now. I'm eager to have her on the outside of me because even with the adjusting to "The New Normal" and all-night nursing marathons, I tend to feel much better when I don't have my stomach, liver and lungs all sharing the same small space beneath my collarbone.

2) On the same note, I am actually getting excited about using cloth diapers for the first time. The decision to do so was completely based on financial considerations, as Bret has been self-employed since the lay-off back in February; nevertheless, I am looking at the stack of soft, white Chinese prefolds and Proraps covers and picturing myself putting them on a tiny baby girl. I am sure the romance with the diapers will end within the first few additional loads of laundry...

3) We are in the throes of potty-training Dominic, who will be three in August, but who, of all my children, has shown the least interest in being a "Big Kid". He is perfectly contented to remain the baby of the family, and there is little doubt that he will adamantly cling to his subordinate position even after Gemma's arrival. There are just too many perks to being the family pet. I fear that his demotion will cause a bit of an upheaval in the household. How's the potty-training going? He loves the underwear, but he is not put off by wearing them wet...

4) It is hot. It is 6:30 a.m. and 80 degrees. By the time it hits 90 degrees it feels like a sauna outside. I try to get by with ceiling fans until we begin to melt around midday. I have a very narrow comfort zone, temperature-wise, like between 65 and 75 degrees. What has been described in my sister, who suffers the same, as being "thermally challenged".

5) Both my paternal grandparents are in bad shape. My grandmother is dying of lung cancer, which has now spread to her esophagus and there isn't much to be done at this point other than trying to keep her comfortable. My grandfather is having kidney problems and severe anemia. They keep giving him blood, and yet they can't figure out where it is going since he doesn't seem to have any internal bleeding. No, no marks on the neck, either. When you read this, please say a quick "Ave" for them.

6) Still struggling to find a middle name for Gemma, and hoping God will give one to her. Jen's story of how her Catherine "Joy" was named is awesome, do read it. Hmm...Gemma Magdalena (hoping she will be born or baptised on my confirmation saint's feast)? Gemma Seraphina? Gemma Sophia? Time to hit the Is It a Saint's Name booklet from TAN again...

7) I'm going grocery shopping this weekend and planning to cook up/make up stuff to stick in the freezer next week. If any of you have suggestions for good family-friendly freezer meals, I will be needing them soon! I live in the sticks, so forget anything that requires exotic ingredients. And we're on a budget, so as much as I love imported cheeses and mahi-mahi, I won't be looking at those types of recipes, either! You can email them to me at nadjamagdalena-at-gmail-dot-com.

Read Jen's Conversion Diary (it is really great) and then post your own 7 Quick Takes.

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Small Successes Volume 23

1) I cleaned out my pantry freezer, making room for frozen meals and a few convenience foods, and making several meals of freezer-burned stuff for the pig and chickens. Recycling at its best.

2) I spent a few hours figuring out the mess in my check book. I eventually got my balance within seven dollars of the bank's figure, pencilled in the bank's figure and breathed a big sigh of relief.

3) I got through today without collapsing into a heap on the sofa before lunch time. And I somehow managed to get through the afternoon as well.

What are some of your own small successes? Click on the header image above to toot your own horn!

Letter from Rome

[This is from Inside the Vatican--it makes some good points and I found it full of hope. Well worth the long read...]

"When God Chooses One, It Is Always to Bless All"

A conversation with a Vatican monsignor

By Robert Moynihan, reporting from Rome

I rang the bell by the massive double doors. A secretary answered, and buzzed me in.
My friend, a Vatican monsignor, was still working at his computer, his desk piled high with letters and books and news clipping from around the world.
A few minutes later, we were walking down the Borgo Pio to Roberto's restaurant, which many of you reading this will know well, and we took our seats at a table in the corner near the door.
We chatted about many things, and worked through our primo piatto of tomato and mozzarella with basil and olive oil ("un caprese").

Then the monsignor began to talk about Mary.
"You know," he said, "the Lutherans had five main tenets of their new undersatnding of the faith: 1) Solus Deus; 2) Solus Christus; 3) Sola Gratia; 4) Sola Fides; and 5) Sola Scriptura. God alone, Christ alone, grace alone, faith alone, scripture alone. And they were actually very close...
"But they were wrong. This is not Catholic doctrine. These are errors..."
"Why, precisely," I asked. "Where is the error?"
"The error is in simplification, oversimplification. In the end, the error is in misundersatnding the role of Mary.

"There's God, and the world, and God chose the world to have the world collaborate with him in the salvation of mankind." He hesitated, then added. "Especially the world of angels and of men. And he chose that his work of salvation would come about through the collaboration, finally, of a woman.
"And that moment, the moment of the woman's choice to collaborate in that work, was one of the supreme moments of all human history, the greatest, I would say. The angel waited on her response... And Mary accepted.
"God chose her, and she accepted his will. And so she became a blessing for all mankind, as she herself later said: 'All generations shall call me blessed.' And that is why we, too, in our time, call her blessed -- the Blessed Virgin Mary..."
I asked my friend if Pope Benedict XVI has a Marian devotion as profound as that of Pope John Paul II. The monsignor's eyes lit up with excitement.
"I have to tell you, and few people are aware of this, but Benedict XVI is surprising me. He is saying things that as Cardinal Ratzinger he never said and never would have said about Our Lady.
"I am reading everything he says and writes, and I am finding remarkable references in his homilies and addresses regarding Mary's special role in our redemption, not a role which diminishes the central and unique role of Christ, but a profoundly important role nevertheless. He is a Marian Pope, and he is becoming ever more so..."
"And the debate over the proposed dogma of Mary as Co-Redemptrix?" I asked. "It is said John Paul II was considering declaring this teaching formally as a dogma. What does Benedict think on the matter?"
"That is a question I cannot answer," the monsignor said. "But I can tell you this: the Pope is becoming more Marian each year, each month. I am quite amazed, frankly. As Pope, he is changing..."
"There have been many visions and apparitions of Mary in the past," I said. "But are there still such phenomena?"
The monsignor just about jumped out of his chair.
"Of course!" he almost shouted. "Mary is the Mother of the Church. Paul VI made that clear at the end of the third session of the Second Vatican Council. And the Church Fathers state very clearly that until the last of her children enters into the kingdom, Mary will still actively be working, interceding, encouraging, guiding, supporting, praying for their salvation... She is a mother, and she will work until her maternal work is finished."
I was reminded again of the Pieta, Michelangelo's great sculpture, which I saw a week ago with my son, the sorrow and the serenity of Mary...
The monsignor was very excited.
"Look," he said. "It is a matter of love. No one else ever fell in love with Christ more than she did. After after her, Joseph and John. Mary is totally relative to him. And we are able to understand our own role in dignity through looking at her. We too are invited by the Lord to participate with her, and Him, in the building up of the kingdom, the building up of the body of Christ. If I didn't believe this, I guess..." He paused. "If I didn't believe this, I guess i would just give up."
I was silent for a moment.
"But it does sometimes seem like the situation of the Vatican, and the Church, is precarious, and even dismal, for many reasons," I said.
"Yes, I agree with you," he said. "Pope Benedict is a holy man, but he is a terrible judge of character. And he doesn't know how to govern. He is self-isolated. He has surrounded himself with a very small group of people, all of whom he already knew before he became Pope. I'd love to see a Pope who governs. The last who did, I think, was Achille Ratti..."
"Pis XI?" I said.
"Yes," the monsignor replied. "He was a tough old bird. Mussolini called him the stubborn old man. Do you know the story of what he did when Hitler came to Rome in the 1930s? Hitler wanted to tour the streets of Rome, and visit the Vatican Museum, and Pius decided to leave the city entirely, and go out to Castel Gandolfo, and he ordered that a sign be posted on the door to the Vatican Museums: 'Closed temporarily for repairs.' He governed, and he knew how to govern, and he didn't mind doing it. He made mistakes, but he didn't back down."
The monsignor told me many other things, but they cannot be mentioned here.
Then I asked him about the Church around the world, and in America.
"The Church is always young," he said. "I know of many Catholics in many parishes and dioceses around the world who are on their knees in their homes and in their parishes. There is a growth in eucharistic adoration which is remarkable. If these people have any kind of spiritual direction, they will grow in knowledge and love of the Catholic faith."
"What is the essence of that?" I asked. "What can people do when they feel isolated, and lonely, and depressed, about themselves, and about the state of the Church, and the world?"
"You've got to fall in love with Jesus," the monsignor said. "And adoration is a wonderful way to fall in love with Jesus. The origin is hidden, like a seed that sprouts beneath the surface of the soil. But then it grows, and flourishes, into joy, and sacrifice, and humility, and virtue, and courage. And this type of individual devotion turns outward, into love for one's neighboar, and the Church is reborn, and the kingdom of God is built up in this fallen world. People's lives change. When you love Jesus, you don't want to offend him. And so people begin to live lives of heroic virtue, precisely because they're totally in love with the Lord."
I was silent. "And the state of the Vatican, and the Church leadership?" I said.
"Look," he said, "it's a mystery. There is no human institution in the world that could survive what we have done to the Church. We are fallible men. The very fact that the Church continues despite all of us who are so flawed is to me the single greatest sign of her divine nature. To me, it's an evident miracle!"

In front of the camera for once...

My kids might very well forget what I looked like once I'm gone, as I am the photographer of our family and hence there are very few photos of me in the album. Thank goodness for friends who take decent pictures! These were taken a couple of weeks ago at the Corpus Christi picnic at the Fathers of Mercy in South Union, KY. Thank you, Liz!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Look what my husband built!

A threshold between Heaven and Earth. The altar where mere bread and wine become the Sacred Body and Precious Blood of our Lord (click on the pictures to see them enlarged).He also did the arch above the sanctuary last year (I did the little "In Hoc Signo Vinces" banner). If you are ever visiting Glasgow, KY, stop by St. Helen's Catholic Church. It is a little jewel.

Monday, June 22, 2009

Outside my window…already 79 degrees (about as warm as I like it) at 5:42 a.m. Looks hazy out.

I am thinking…the cookout at my sister's yesterday. She had the lawn sprinkler going and two kiddie pools filled, and the kids had a blast. I did hardly anything. The food was great and the company was great.

I am thankful for…homeschooling. Not just because I want my kids to be unaffected by the prevalent culture, but because they are growing so fast, and I want to have them with me as much as possible before they go off to forge their own lives.

From the kitchen...Blueberry muffins and canteloupe.

I am creating…still on the wool soaker. It is much bigger than I had thought it would be. May not fit Gemma for a year!

I am readingThe Splendor of Sorrow. Wonderful meditations on the Seven Sorrows of our Blessed Mother. Only $2.00 from Sophia Institute Press, and I highly recommend it!

I am hoping…More work to come in for Bret. He is installing the altar at St. Helen's today, and there isn't much work following it.

I am hearing…birds. And Nuala's cowbell as she chews. Kids are amazingly all asleep.

A few plans for the rest of the week…haircuts for Bret and the boys, meals for the freezer, washing of new cloth diapers (they should be here in a day or two) and lesson plan forms drawn up, as the ones available online just don't work for me. I need to customize them.

The children are...asleep. And looking forward to watching a couple of videos they borrowed from their aunt.

A Picture Thought: Adrian was completely wiped out after an afternoon of sun and water. He fell asleep thus while watching a cartoon video.Visit Peggy at the Simple Woman for more Daybook entries.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Sunday Silence

Well, not quite silent. I found this beautiful image of St. Aloysius Gonzaga and had to put it up on his feast day.

And I received a "Cyber Baby Shower" gift from Allison this morning that I have to acknowledge and insist you watch--it's so beautiful, if it doesn't make you well up with tears, there must be something wrong with you!

Lastly, Happy Father's Day, Bret (and all you other daddies, too)!

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Say "Cheese"!

A scary future for America

My friend, Marilyn, has been writing a few politically thoughtful posts the last couple of days, and I was especially impressed with this link she offered to an article published by Stanislav Mishin in the Russian newspaper Pravda. I sent it on to a number of people, and my friend Jennifer in South Carolina sent me another amazing link: a 1985 interview with Yuri Bezminov that details this decades-long slide into Marxist Leninism. It is astounding that this interview took place over 20 years ago...

St. Gemma Galgani and The Year for Priests

Yesterday, on the Feast of the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, began what our Holy Father has declared The Year for Priests. And I just found this little article on the internet on St. Gemma Galgani and her acts of reparation on behalf of priests and nuns who were not living out their vows. It is meaningful to me that my own Gemma will be born during The Year of Priests, and I hope she will grow up feeling a special responsibility for pray for the priesthood and for holy vocations.

Friday, June 19, 2009

The New Porker

This is the new piggie, Cookie.She looks a lot like J.P., our last piggie, and in fact she, like he, is another runt and came to us from the same Mennonite farmer (on a side note, one of our friends suggested we call this one "J.P. II", but I try not to use Christian names or those of candidates for canonization when I can help it).

She has already managed to escape her pen, which doesn't seem to be much of a problem right now since she follows the cows wherever they go.
Our heifer, Naomi, seems to be tolerating her ugly foster-child pretty well. Cookie, being still a baby, gets tired of following and flops down in the grass while Naomi grazes. Then Cookie, being still a baby, falls fast asleep. When she awakens she is in a total panic to find her "Mommy". Thank goodness the cows have bells on them...

Images of the Sacred Heart

I love images of the Sacred Heart. Below are a few collected from the internet over time. Enjoy!










Feast of the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus

I give myself and consecrate to the Sacred Heart of our Lord Jesus Christ, my person and my life, my actions, pains and sufferings, so that I may be unwilling to make use of any part of my being other than to honor, love and glorify the Sacred Heart. This is my unchanging purpose, namely, to be all His, and to do all things for the love of Him, at the same time renouncing with all my heart whatever is displeasing to Him. I therefore take You, O Sacred heart, to be the only object of my love, the guardian of my life, my assurance of salvation, the remedy of my weakness and inconstancy, the atonement for all the faults of my life and my sure refuge at the hour of death.

Be then, O Heart of goodness, my justification before God the Father, and turn away from me the strokes of his righteous anger. O Heart of love, I put all my confidence in You, for I fear everything from my own wickedness and frailty, but I hope for all things from Your goodness and bounty.

Remove from me all that can displease You or resist Your holy will; let your pure love imprint Your image so deeply upon my heart, that I shall never be able to forget You or to be separated from You.

May I obtain from all Your loving kindness the grace of having my name written in Your Heart, for in You I desire to place all my happiness and glory, living and dying in bondage to You.

Amen.

--St. Margaret Mary Alacoque

Thursday, June 18, 2009

1) Made a gallon of yogurt and 1.5 lbs of butter, and cooked up 4 lbs of ground beef with onions and peppers. Bagged the latter in 1 lb. bags and put in the freezer for making quick meals with.

2) Ordered my cloth diapers and diaper covers after struggling with which to choose. Am going with Chinese prefolds and Prorap Classics for now.

3) Made a new baby pouch carrier like from the instructions given on the Karma Baby website. The fabric is so bright and summery, and I love it! I still really want to order fabric and try a Moby Wrap type carrier, but that will have to wait for now.

4) Listed a bunch of used curriculum on Cathswap. Only one bite so far, but I hope to get rid of the whole pile.

5) Cleaned my bathrooms. And Bret, God bless him, mopped my floors.

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Getting ready for Gemma: Homebirth Supplies

I have been a compulsive list-maker throughout my life, and having a baby is always an excuse to make myriad lists. With about a month or so to go, I am making/reviewing lists left and right, and I thought I might share a few with you. Today I present you with my well-worn Home-birth Supplies List for labor and postpartum.

Labor:
1) 3 mil plastic sheet for bed
2) Labor sheets (Explanation: a week or two before I'm due I make the bed with some nice sheets first, then I cover these with the plastic sheet. Over that I put my "Labor Sheets", which are some dark green thrift shop sheets that have been through my last three births and show no stains. After the birth the midwife strips the labor sheets and tosses them in the washer, throws out the plastic sheet--a painter's disposable dropcloth--and there are the nice fresh sheets for baby and me!
3) Chux pads
4) A dozen cheap washcloths for compresses
5) Crockpot for warming compresses
6) Small bottle of olive oil for lubricant
7) Sterilized bulb syringe in ziplock bag
8) Rice pack to heat in microwave
9) Emergenciy Procedures list (just in case the midwife doesn't make it in time!
10) Bach's Rescue Remedy for transition--I've never used it, as I'm just used to throwing up and getting the shakes for a bit!
11) Trilight Herbs Start Up Formula--in case there's a failure to progress. Again, I haven't needed it.
12) Large bowls--for sickness and placenta
13) "Labor-Aid" or Gatorade
14) Flexible straws
15) Snacks and drinks for kids, Bret, Midwives
16) Homeopathic arnica--to prevent bruising and swelling

Postpartum:
1) 3-5 flannel blankets, sterilized and bagged (for cleaning and swaddling baby)
2) Newborn diapers, outfit, 2 hats--one if it is very stretchy to accommodate any head
3) Sterile cotton navel cord (midwife usually has this or a clamp)
4) Nursing nightgown
5) Gigantic maxi pads
6) Protein shakes--my midwife made me one in the blender postpartum after Gabriel's birth, and nothing ever tasted so good!
7) Ice packs
8) Digital camera and extra charged batteries
9) Phone number list

Other:
1) Co-sleeper with side support
2) Car seat with infant head support
3) Comfy sleeping bra
4) Postpartum abdominal support (I am ordering one for the first time, as after my last birth I suffered worse back pain after the birth than I did during the entire pregnancy)
5) Lanolin for sore nipples
6) Breast pump--for when my cups runneth over--and breastmilk storage bags
7) Boppy pillow
8) bouncy seat
9) Herb Pharm's Women's Health Tonic (for afterpains)
10) Enough disposable diapers for first two weeks.

Assembling this stuff is part of the fun of preparing for a homebirth. I already have almost everything on the list, with only a few things to purchase...

Calling for recipes!

I have a few things I am making to stick in the freezer, but I have limited freezer space (thanks to this spring's "dispatching" of a hog and a steer, not to mention my stockpile of butter), so I am also looking for easy, tasty recipes that are quick to toss together and contain no exotic/prohibitively expensive ingredients--as much as I adore lobster and Portability mushrooms. You can post them here, or email them to me at nadjamagdalena-at-gmail-dot-com. I find cooking postpartum the toughest part of having a new baby, so I will be very grateful!

Monday, June 15, 2009

Outside my window…a humid, dew-drenched morning, our cow and heifer grazing, their cowbells gently clanging as they eat.

I am thinking…about the beautiful Corpus Christi Mass at the Fathers of Mercy yesterday and Saturday's ordination to the temporary diaconate of Br. (now Deacon) Joseph Aytona, CPM. I lost count of how many priests were present, but it was delightful to see so many. Yesterday's Mass was a Novus Ordo in Latin. Also thinking about our summer school plans. A very light schedule, but I do need to put it on a schedule rather than "winging it" as I have been doing for the last week. It is too easy to put off if I don't put it on paper.

I am thankful for…SLEEP! I actually had a good 8 hours last night after three nights of dreadful insomnia with less than 3 decent hours a night. I was beginning to feel really badly--shaky and light-headed--by yesterday afternoon. And for the prayers of my friends for this pregnancy...

From the kitchen...Muffins and vanilla yogurt.

I am creating…still on the wool soaker. I sort of put aside the knitting for the last week or two. I have been too busy to sit and knit much.

I am reading… Last night it was Countryside Magazine. I do enjoy it!

I am hoping…for no more sleepless nights until after Gemma's birth!

I am hearing…birds. And Nuala's cowbell as she chews.

A few plans for the rest of the week…summer school plans to be put to paper, a couple of meals put in the freezer, order my cloth diapers. I have an appointment with the OB today...

The children are...asleep, with the exception of Early Bird Gabriel. He is quietly playing on the sofa.

A Picture Thought: A goofy shot of Nuala. She is such a sweetie...I couldn't have picked a better cow temperament-wise!

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Friday, June 12, 2009

For me?!!! A virtual baby shower!

Who says friends made over the internet can't be true friends? My cyber-friend/blog-mate Marilyn is having a "virtual baby shower" for me on her blog!

I came home today from grocery shopping feeling droopy and sensitive and frumpy, and when I checked my bloglist I found this on Marilyn's blog--it sure did a lot to lift my spirits. She has assembled some of the prettiest prayers for me, and if you do check out her post, please do offer up a prayer for me, even if it is just an "Ave" for a safe delivery and healthy baby.

Small Successes--Friday Edition

1) I made an appointment to get my hair trimmed (and Una's) today. This will probably be the last trim before the baby comes.

2) I cleared out a drawer and another space in my bedroom for Gemma's clothes and diapers, since she will be in our room for a while.

3) I washed a load of baby clothes--onesies, nightgowns and flannel blankets, and placed them in the drawer. They looked so sweet in there that I went to my sewing machine and made a few lavender sachets to place in the drawer.

4) I pulled out my old homebirth list and checked off what I already have on hand. Really there is very little I still need. I will publish the list at some point.

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Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Backyard wildlife report--by Sebastian

He failed to mention the fact that it was 3 feet long, and that it was discovered as it slithered past me while I was hanging out the laundry.

Ninety Years of Wisdom

Thank you, Patrice, for posting this. I'm a list-maker myself, so I always love a good list. And this one has the wisdom of a lifetime behind it. It was written by Regina Brett of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio.

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more."

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first pay check.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time... time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

Monday, June 8, 2009


Outside my window…A sunny, hazy morning, promising to become a very hot day!

I am thinking…about the retreat this weekend. Una had so much fun with the Sister Servants and the other little girls. Watching the girls giggling and playing together tugged at my heart, for it will be only a few very brief years until they are all Big Girls!

I am thankful for…home. As much as I enjoyed the retreat, I missed Bret and the boys by yesterday morning. I'm also thankful for my friend Cindy, who did all the driving and who makes long trips so enjoyable with her good company.

From the kitchen...I haven't a clue...

I am creating…still on the wool soaker. I may have to felt it to get it smaller, as it looks really big!

I am reading… I brought back a few books from the Sister Servants...I'm not sure what I'll tackle first.

I am hoping…a productive week. There's much to do and time is getting short!

I am hearing…birds. And Nuala's cowbell as she chews.

A few plans for the rest of the week…I'll figure this out today, as I haven't made my list for the week up yet.

The children are...up and playing with a crawdad they caught at the creek this weekend. It has given Gabe a good pinch, but it doesn't seem to discourage them.

A Picture Thought: Una at the Shrine of the Most Blessed Sacrament. It was so nice to get away with her, and you can tell she enjoyed it, too!Visit Peggy at the Simple Woman for more Daybook entries.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

1) I finished Dominic's sweater, and it looks nice on him.

2) Thanks to my husband's decision to put a laundry sink in the laundry room/pantry, I was sort of forced to reorganized and cleaned that room. I had rather given up the thought of getting it done before Gemma's birth, so I am really delighted. It is so tidy that I find myself peeking in during the day just to look at it!

3) In spite of tiredness, Una coming down with a cold and Bret having been gone all day, I managed to shower, do laundry, pack, get the boys' clothes out for Sunday and tidy up the house in preparation for the retreat this weekend.

We are off to the Mother/Daughter Retreat in Hanceville, AL this weekend--if you read this, please say an Ave for Bret and the boys--this is the first time I am leaving him without my Big Girl to stay behind and help!

That reminds me: I'd best make a list of where to find everything and how to set up the coffee maker! Until Monday, friends!

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The Case Against Homeschooling

Have any of you read this? This public school teacher's criticisms of home education are so incredibly ridiculous that I could laugh if he wasn't in a position of authority over young minds. Thank you, Milehimama, for pointing him out and for so intelligently refuting his objections.

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Where I've been...

Well, really I haven't gone anywhere yet, but Una and I are leaving to the Mother-Daughter Retreat on Friday morning, and I am trying to get things done before then. Not easy since I am so very sleep deprived and my varicose-vein-riddled leg is killing me. Too hot and sticky to bear even the thought of compression hose! I am whiny and crabby, and disliking myself intensely for it. I tell myself, "Only 6 more weeks or so," and then I groan, "How am I going to drag/limp around for another 6 weeks?" Wimp.

I finished Dominic's sweater and have to post a shot of him wearing it, once it cools off enough to put him in it without him melting. Right now he is playing with his siblings in the sprinkler, and I long to join them. Instead, I am baking (ugh!) multiple loaves of banana bread with a bunch of over-ripe bananas (they were green just a few days ago!) to stick in the freezer.

Well, I've an appalling mess in the kitchen to clean up, so I'd better get to it.

Monday, June 1, 2009

Outside my window…Dark with a hint of color on the horizon...it's not yet 5 a.m.

I am thinking…about expenses, unfortunately. The next few months promise to be expensive, and resources are few. Jesus, I trust in You!

I am thankful for…the generosity of so many. Thanks to friends and family, I have hand-me-downs to last the baby through the first 9 months, and I even have quite a bit for beyond that. Other than the diapering stuff, the baby's material needs will be few.

From the kitchen...Blueberry muffins and vanilla yogurt.

I am creating…nearly done with Dominic's pullover. I just have a drawstring to make for the hood. I have begun knitting a wool soaker for the baby from a vintage pattern.

I am reading… I am having a hard time reading lately. Part of it is lack of time, and part lack of concentration. Knitting is easier because I can think and knit simultaneously.

I am hoping…for a couple of decent nights of sleep! This morning, like most others, Adrian woke me at 3:25, and I lay there trying to get back to sleep...then Dominic woke me at 4. Since I have been rising at 4:30 for years, it is impossible to get back to sleep at that point. And 5-6 hours is not enough for an old pregnant lady!

I am hearing…birds. And Nuala's cowbell as she chews.

A few plans for the rest of the week…Una and I are headed to a Mother-Daughter Retreat with the Sister Servants of the Eternal Word this weekend, so I have a lot to do before then. Today it's laundry, butter, bills and the checkbook.

The children are...sleeping! After waking me up! The nerve...! Una is at her first slumber party. All home-schooled girls her age. It was so cute: she called at 8:30 to say goodnight to her brothers. Adrian had asked where she was and said he missed her. I miss her, too!

A Picture Thought: I am feeling a pair of these kicking around in me all the time! I can't wait to actually see them! Visit Peggy at the Simple Woman for more Daybook entries.